ULA

so if you haven’t heard…

boochxhound:

I’m going through a bit of a personal crisis, or rather going through the motions of an accountability process for a former partner. If any of y’all wanna talk about it or ask me any questions, I’m an open book. I have deeply appreciated the feedback and support thus far. In an effort to remain as transparent as possible, I will post the grievances and demands of accountability I presented to him (Mack) last sunday during a formal intervention-style process after the jump. 

 (As stated in Mack’s announcement on his facebook and tumblr, him and I are on good terms, I am simply being open in an effort to heal and provide an example of what this process could look like for some.) 

Thanks. 

[TW: Emotional/verbal abuse and manipulation]

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My friend Jenna is going through an accountability process with her former partner, and reading this is really crazy. I really support this method of dealing with personal relationship issues, and I wish it happened more widely. I still have many bitter feelings about a past relationship that may not have ended as badly had I been aware of this process. I still feel anger over the lack of accountability my ex has taken over the shitty things he did/said to me, and sadness over the lack of support I felt at many times. Despite all the time that’s passed, there’s a lot that I’ve carried with me, and it’s all negative.

So yeah, go Jenna!